تقديم الأولويات: عن أبي جحيفة قال: آخى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم بين سلمان الفارسي وأبي الدرداء رضي الله عنهما. فزار سلمان أبا الدرداء، فرأى أم الدرداء مبتذلة. فقال لها: ما شأنكِ؟ فقالت: إن أخاك أبا الدرداء ليست له حاجة في الدنيا. قال: فلما جاء أبو الدرداء قرب طعامًا فقال: كُل فإني صائم. قال: ما أنا بآكلٍ حتى تأكل. قال: فأكل، فلما كان الليل ذهب أبو الدرداء ليقوم. فقال له سلمان: نم، فنام. فلما كان من آخر الليل قال له سلمان: قم الآن.
فقاما فصلّيا فقال: إن لنفسك عليك حقًا، ولربك عليك حقًا، وإن لضيفك عليك حقًا، وإن لأهلك عليك حقًا، فأعطِ كلّ ذي حقٍ حقه، فأتيا النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم، فذكرا ذلك له فقال: " صدق سلمان ". [رواه البخاري، رقم: 5788].
Full English translationPrioritizing: On the authority of Abu Juhaifa, who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) established a bond of brotherhood between Salman al-Farisi and Abu al-Darda’ (may Allah be pleased with them both). Salman visited Abu al-Darda’ and saw Umm al-Darda’ in a disheveled state. He asked her, “What is the matter with you?” She replied, “Your brother Abu al-Darda’ has no worldly desires.” When Abu al-Darda’ arrived, he offered food and said, “Eat, for I am fasting.” Salman replied, “I will not eat until you eat.” So he ate. When night came, Abu al-Darda’ went to pray. Salman told him, “Sleep,” so he slept. At the end of the night, Salman said to him, “Get up now.” So they both got up and prayed. Then Salman said, “Your soul has a right over you, your Lord has a right over you, your guest has a right over you, and your family has a right over you. So give everyone their due.” They went to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and told him about it. He said, “Salman has spoken the truth.” [Narrated by al-Bukhari, no. 5788]