نساء السلف: عن ثابت البناني: أن صلة بن أشيم كان في مغزًى له، ومعه ابن له فقال: أيْ بنيّ تقدّم فقاتل حتى أحتَسبك، فحمل فقاتل حتى قُتل رحمه الله، ثم تقدّم فقتل، فاجتمعت النساء عند امرأته مُعاذة العَدَوِيّة رحمها الله، فقالت: مرحبًا، إن كنتنّ جئتُنّ لتهنّئْننيّ فمرحبًا بكم، وإن كنتُنّ جئتنّ لغير ذلك فارجعْن. [صفة الصفوة 2/153].
Women of the Salaf: On the authority of Thabit al-Banani: Silah ibn Ashim was on a military expedition, and with him was his son. He said: “O my son, go forward and fight so that I may seek Allah’s reward for losing you.” So he charged and fought until he was killed, may God have mercy on him. Then he went forward and was killed. So the women gathered at the house of his wife, Mu’adhah al-Adawiyyah, may God have mercy on her. She said: “Welcome. If you have come to congratulate me, then welcome to you. But if you have come for something else, then go back.” [Sifat al-Safwah 2/153].